Kickstart your Gratitude journey. The Live LIGHT 70-Day Gratitude Challenge invites you to make a daily commitment to thankfulness.
Welcome! Today, I’m excited to introduce the Live LIGHT 70-Day Gratitude Challenge. If you’re ready to bring more joy and appreciation into your life, this is for you.
Over 70 days, we’ll choose gratitude, feel its impact, and express thankfulness together. Whether you’re new to practicing gratitude or want to go deeper, join us and experience the transformation that comes from giving thanks with your whole heart.
Your heart is the seat of your decisions, the seat of your emotions and the seat of your actions. So every day for 70 days—-from Friday, September 19, 2025 – Thursday November 27, 2025
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Are you ready to shift your perspective and embrace gratitude? The Live LIGHT 70-Day Gratitude Challenge invites you to make a daily commitment to thankfulness.
Every day, you’ll choose to give thanks, feel grateful, and show appreciation through simple actions. Inspired by Psalm 138:1, this challenge helps you notice the blessings around you, build resilience, and create positive habits.
Whether you join the live casts, follow the blog, listen to the podcast, or participate in our community, you’ll find encouragement every step of the way.
Start your journey with us on September 19 and see how gratitude can transform your relationships, mindset, and overall well-being. Let’s kickstart this gratitude adventure together!
In the midst of busy schedules, endless notifications, and everyday stresses, it’s easy to miss the simple joys and blessings right in front of us. But studies have shown that gratitude—the intentional practice of noticing and appreciating what’s good—has a profound effect on our mindset, relationships, and health.
The Live LIGHT 70-Day Gratitude Challenge is designed to help you shift your perspective and build a lasting habit of thankfulness.
Whether you’re looking for a fresh start, wanting to deepen your spiritual walk, or simply need more positivity in your life, this challenge provides practical tools, daily inspiration, and community support.
Over the course of 70 days, you’ll discover how gratitude can help you navigate life’s ups and downs with more peace and resilience.
What is the Live LIGHT 70-Day Gratitude Challenge?
The Live LIGHT 70-Day Gratitude Challenge is a guided journey from September 19, 2025, to November 27, 2025. Each day, you’ll make a conscious choice to give thanks with your whole heart—drawing inspiration from Psalm 138:1: “I will give thanks with my whole heart.” This challenge is more than a checklist; it’s about building a lifestyle anchored in thankfulness.
Here’s what makes it unique:
You can make it what you want. What I do is 3 simple things.
Choose to give thanks
Feel grateful for what I give thanks for
Show appreciation for what I feel gratitude for
How I can help you:
Daily Focus: Simple reflections or activities each day to help you choose gratitude.
Flexible Participation: Engage through live casts, podcasts, blogs, an online community, or at your own pace.
Spiritual Foundation: Grounded in biblical principles but welcoming to anyone who wants to grow in positivity.
Community Support: Connect with others taking the same journey for encouragement and accountability.
The Power of Choosing Gratitude
1. Gratitude Is a Choice
Gratitude begins as a conscious decision. By choosing to focus on what’s good—even in difficult circumstances—you shift your outlook and open yourself up to joy.
2. Gratitude Affects Emotions
When you notice and acknowledge blessings, positive emotions follow. Practicing daily gratitude can reduce stress, anxiety, and negativity. It helps you bounce back when life throws you curveballs.
3. Gratitude Inspires Action
Thankfulness isn’t just about feeling good—it naturally leads to actions that benefit those around you. When you express appreciation through kind words or deeds, relationships grow stronger and communities thrive.
Why 70 Days? The Science & Spiritual Significance
The number 70 isn’t random—it carries meaning both scientifically and spiritually.
Spiritual Meaning: In scripture, 70 represents fullness and completeness in God’s plan.
Habit Formation: Psychology research shows it takes roughly 66 days to form a new habit. By stretching this challenge to 70 days, you reinforce the pathways that make gratitude second nature.
Key Milestones:
After 21 days: You’ll begin to feel happier.
After 42 days: Gratitude feels routine.
After 63 days: The habit is nearly set.
After 70 days: Thankfulness is woven into your daily life.
How Does the Gratitude Challenge Work?
Each day for 70 days, focus on three simple steps:
Choose to Give Thanks (Decision): Every morning, decide what you’re grateful for—even if it’s something small.
Feel Grateful (Emotions): Allow yourself to really feel the emotion behind your thankfulness.
Show Appreciation (Action): Express your gratitude—write it down, share it verbally, or do something kind for someone else.
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Is interested in modelling gratitude at home or work
No experience is needed—just a willingness to look for good and build a new habit.
Key Benefits of Daily Gratitude
Mental Health Boost
Regular gratitude practice has been linked with lower rates of depression and anxiety. It helps shift your focus from what’s missing to what’s present.
Stronger Relationships
Expressing appreciation deepens trust and connection with family, friends, colleagues—even strangers.
Increased Resilience
Gratitude doesn’t erase challenges but helps you face them with greater strength and grace.
Greater Happiness & Fulfillment
Daily thankfulness amplifies moments of joy and satisfaction throughout your day.
Spiritual Growth
Reflection on blessings opens your heart to God’s presence and love in everyday life.
Course + Community ($57): Includes video/text lessons, access to the Gratitude Hub (with replays), lifetime Chalet Access to Live LIGHT Cascade Chalet.
Course + Community + Clarity ($247): Everything above plus group coaching sessions and the Live LIGHT with your Whole Heart Course for deeper transformation.
What Will You Experience?
Imagine waking up every morning feeling more joyful and purposeful because you’ve chosen gratitude. With each day of conscious practice, your mindset shifts from lack to abundance. You’ll start appreciating small details—a kind word, a beautiful sunrise, laughter with family—and find more meaning in everyday moments. You’ll find yourself laughing more
Your relationships may deepen as you express appreciation more naturally. Stress becomes easier to handle because you’re focusing on what’s working. Over time, gratitude becomes part of who you are—not just something you do.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
Q: Do I need to be religious? No—the challenge is rooted in biblical principles but open to everyone who wants more positivity in their life.
Q: What if I miss a day? Just pick up where you left off! Progress matters more than perfection.
Q: Can I join after the start date? Yes—all resources are available for replay or catch-up at any time.
Q: Is there support available? Yes—live casts, community forums, group coaching sessions, and course materials all offer support throughout the challenge.
Tips for Making Gratitude Stick
Set a daily reminder on your phone or calendar
Keep a gratitude journal by your bed
Tell someone what you appreciate about them every day
Celebrate milestones—21 days, halfway mark (35 days), completion at 70 days
Reflect weekly on how your mindset is changing
Join Us: Your Next Step Toward Thankfulness
If you’re seeking real change—a way to break free from negativity and experience deeper happiness—the Live LIGHT 70-Day Gratitude Challenge is your invitation. This journey isn’t just about feeling good; it’s about transforming how you approach life every single day.
Sign up now at revtrev.link/thanks and discover how a daily practice of thankfulness can bring peace, happiness, and fulfillment into every area of your life.
Let’s kickstart this gratitude adventure together!
Final Thoughts
Gratitude is more than just an emotion—it’s a choice that shapes your thoughts, feelings, and relationships. Over these 70 days, you’ll build habits that last long after the challenge ends. Whether you’re seeking spiritual growth or simply want more positive energy in your life, this journey will help you uncover blessings all around you.
Don’t wait for happiness to find you—choose gratitude now and watch it grow.
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Trevor H. Lund is the founder of Live LIGHT Academy at LiveLight.ca with books, challenges and courses to help you not conform by be transformed. As the Storyteller-in-Residence at the Cascade Chalet https://revtrev.com/chalet, he crafts unique narratives and immersive experiences. Dive into his creative projects at https://revtrev.com, watch past videos and live casts at https://revtrev.com/tv, and subscribe to his podcast at https://revtrev.com/radio or your favourite platform.
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In this message, we explore how to walk in surrender. We examine the themes of betrayal and submission through biblical narratives. Learn how these events can shape your spiritual journey. Join us as we uncover valuable lessons on trust and resilience. Discover how to navigate personal relationships while maintaining your faith. Tune in for thoughtful insights and practical advice on overcoming betrayal and fostering submission to God's will.
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In our series with the Road to the Resurrection, we are at Maundy Thursday - the night he was betrayed.
It’s also the night his disciples did support Him in prayer, the night he was deserted and the night he was denied. But we remember it as the night He was betrayed.
We’re going to look at how Jesus walked out that day and how we can walk in surrender to God.
Because When we adopt surrender we embrace His peace.
Can we pray?
There are three events on the night Jesus was betrayed that demonstrate how He walked in surrender that we are going to focus on today.
There’s more I can say, but I’m going to focus on three events that lead up to the other events.
The Washing of the Disciples Feet,
The Celebration of the Last Supper,
The Betrayal in the Garden.
These show us what surrender really is and how we can apply it in the day-to-day of our everyday.
1. Washing the Disciples' Feet
John 13:1-17 Before the Passover celebration, Jesus knew that his hour had come to leave this world and return to his Father. He had loved his disciples during his ministry on earth, and now he loved them to the very end. It was time for supper, and the devil had already prompted Judas, son of Simon Iscariot, to betray Jesus. Jesus knew that the Father had given him authority over everything and that he had come from God and would return to God. So he got up from the table, took off his robe, wrapped a towel around his waist, and poured water into a basin. Then he began to wash the disciples’ feet, drying them with the towel he had around him.When Jesus came to Simon Peter, Peter said to him, “Lord, are you going to wash my feet?”Jesus replied, “You don’t understand now what I am doing, but someday you will.”
If you ever need a promise claim that one.
“No,” Peter protested, “you will never ever wash my feet!”Jesus replied, “Unless I wash you, you won’t belong to me.”Simon Peter exclaimed, “Then wash my hands and head as well, Lord, not just my feet!”Jesus replied, “A person who has bathed all over does not need to wash, except for the feet, to be entirely clean. And you disciples are clean, but not all of you.” For Jesus knew who would betray him. That is what he meant when he said, “Not all of you are clean.”After washing their feet, he put on his robe again and sat down and asked, “Do you understand what I was doing? You call me ‘Teacher’ and ‘Lord,’ and you are right, because that’s what I am. And since I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you ought to wash each other’s feet. I have given you an example to follow. Do as I have done to you. I tell you the truth, slaves are not greater than their master. Nor is the messenger more important than the one who sends the message. Now that you know these things, God will bless you for doing them.”
When we adopt surrender we embrace His peace.
Surrender is not what the world tells you it is. It’ s not giving up to someone or something who is trying to bully you. It’s not the “loser” in the “winner and loser” zero-sum politics that some people like to play.
Surrender is demonstrated by Jesus: Jesus took on the role of a servant. He washed the feet of the one who would betray him, the ones who would desert him, the one who would deny him.
He flipped everything up-side down. You want to be the greatest you need to serve the best. It is not about you, it’s about the one who sends you.
The one who is sending you is God. The one you need to become more and more like is Jesus. He left you an example so you can follow in his steps.
* Surrender is a willingness to lay down your own desires for the sake of others.
It is choosing humility over pride and service over status.
Philippians 2:3-4 NLT Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves. Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.
Let’s continue the story in Luke and talk about the Last Supper.
⠀2. The Last Supper
Luke 22:14-23 When the time came, Jesus and the apostles sat down together at the table. Jesus said, “I have been very eager to eat this Passover meal with you before my suffering begins. For I tell you now that I won’t eat this meal again until its meaning is fulfilled in the Kingdom of God.”Then he took a cup of wine and gave thanks to God for it. Then he said, “Take this and share it among yourselves. For I will not drink wine again until the Kingdom of God has come.”He took some bread and gave thanks to God for it. Then he broke it in pieces and gave it to the disciples, saying, “This is my body, which is given for you. Do this in remembrance of me.”After supper he took another cup of wine and said, “This cup is the new covenant between God and his people—an agreement confirmed with my blood, which is poured out as a sacrifice for you.“But here at this table, sitting among us as a friend, is the man who will betray me. For it has been determined that the Son of Man must die. But what sorrow awaits the one who betrays him.” The disciples began to ask each other which of them would ever do such a thing.
When we adopt surrender we embrace His peace.
I mentioned it’s Maundy Thursday. Do you know what that means?
"maundy" comes from the Latin word "mandatum," meaning "command" or "mandate".
It comes from Jesus instituting a new covenant at his last passover meal.
Have you ever wondered why we celebrate communion, but not foot washing? It’s because the Corinthian church got communion so badly that Paul needed to correct it. He wrote to them that he has special revelation that he received from the Lord that he reminded them of.
Paul had a special revelation from the Lord that communion was to continue until the Lord comes back. It’s how we regularly remember everything that changed at the cross.
Everything changed at the cross:
Guilt was removed (Justification). Romans 3:23-24
The price of sin was paid (Redemption). Romans 3:25
Our sins were washed (Propitiation). 1 Corinthians 6:11
We were made friends again with God (Reconciliation). 2 Corinthians 5:19
We are no longer fallen (Identification). Ephesians 2:4-6
Satan’s Rule Was Ended (Reclamation). Colossians 2:15
The curse of the law was canceled (Expiation). Galatians 3:13
Why Celebrate Communion and Not Foot Washing
So we know the earliest church celebrated communion, and it was because God illuminated it to Paul that we know it’s for us until Christ returns and we celebrate what it represents with Him.
For the first 3 centuries the church gathered around table. So getting this right was so important. It wasn’t until the 4th century we started gathering around the Word.
On the other hand, from earliest time we understood washing each other’s feet meant submitting to one another in love. It is a way of life, not a ceremony…unless God gives someone a special revelation for a specific time.
Pick up the story
Let’s pick it up the story with Luke you’re not going to believe this. Remember, they were just asking each other which one of them could ever betray Jesus, next verse…
Luke 22:24-27Then they began to argue among themselves about who would be the greatest among them. Jesus told them, “In this world the kings and great men lord it over their people, yet they are called ‘friends of the people.’ But among you it will be different. Those who are the greatest among you should take the lowest rank, and the leader should be like a servant. Who is more important, the one who sits at the table or the one who serves? The one who sits at the table, of course. But not here! For I am among you as one who serves."
Now, two things could be happening. I think John was the last Gospel written and John wrote it when he was an old man. He could remember the events in a different order—we know this conversation happened on the night Jesus was betrayed.
But I know young men—I once considered myself young—and it’s totally reasonable for young men to go from “I’m not going to betray him” to “I’m the best one here.” And it’s completely natural for young men to be correct twice the same night for the same arrogance and misplaced trust.
So I don’t have a problem with John putting this correction when Jesus washed their feet and Luke putting it when they were on the way to the garden.
But you’d like to feel the eye of Jesus rolls. You’d like to imagine him slapping his forehead. When are these guys going to clue in?
But he doesn’t because what’s true for us is true for him.
When we adopt surrender we embrace His peace.
His disciples were so confident that they were still arguing about who would be the greatest. Remember Jesus sent them out to heal the sick, cleanse the lepers, cast out demons and raise the dead. They came back rejoicing that even demons were subjected to them. They just saw the crowd wave palm branches and throw down their cloaks and shouted Hossana!
And even though Jesus was talking about dying, they thought he was just talking in riddles again or just saying things they couldn’t understand yet but maybe in time, they would understand it.
They knew the Messiah would come in power. And they knew Jesus was the Messiah. Therefore Jesus would come in power.
The logic holds.
The one who actually might have believed what Jesus said about dying was Judas Iscariot. Remember he went out to heal the sick and cleanse the lepers and cast out demons and raised the dead. He returned, with them all and all excited.
How did the devil prompt him? We’re not told. We know he kept the money bag and helped himself to it. There was something in him looking out for self.
But I wonder if Judas was the first to realize Jesus was serious when he said He was going to die. It would have shattered his belief in Jesus being the Messiah.
If he believed Jesus was going to die and knew the Messiah was going to come in power, then Judas hadn’t surrendered to God’s plan. So instead of embracing peace, he tried to take control.
Surrender is the opposite of trying to take control.
* Surrender is trusting God's plan, even when it challenges your understanding.
We know what to do when God’s plan doesn’t make sense to our thinking…
Philippians 4:6-7 NLT Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.
When we adopt surrender we embrace His peace.
Let’s pick it up with Matthew…
Matthew 26:30-35Then they sang a hymn and went out to the Mount of Olives.On the way, Jesus told them, “Tonight all of you will desert me. For the Scriptures say, ‘God will strike the Shepherd, and the sheep of the flock will be scattered.’ But after I have been raised from the dead, I will go ahead of you to Galilee and meet you there.”Peter declared, “Even if everyone else deserts you, I will never desert you.”Jesus replied, “I tell you the truth, Peter—this very night, before the rooster crows, you will deny three times that you even know me.” "No!” Peter insisted. “Even if I have to die with you, I will never deny you!” And all the other disciples vowed the same.
When we adopt surrender we embrace His peace.
I’ve learned the hard way to not argue with Jesus. I’m not saying “I don’t still do it at times.” I’ve learned His peace is more important than my will being done.
When I disagree with him—and yes, that still happens—I’ll find a Psalm that feels the same way I do and wrestle with that Psalm until I ultimately decide to agree with Jesus.
I guess I do it enough that I’ve created a webpage on my site with every Psalm of Lament grouped into emotions so I can find the one that feels the way I currently am feeling more quickly. https://revtrev.com/psalms/
Let’s move on to the Garden. I’ll move through Luke and Matthew’s accounts…
3. Betrayal in the Garden
Luke 22:39-42
Then, accompanied by the disciples, Jesus left the upstairs room and went as usual to the Mount of Olives. There he told them, “Pray that you will not give in to temptation.” He walked away, about a stone’s throw, and knelt down and prayed, “Father, if you are willing, please take this cup of suffering away from me. Yet I want your will to be done, not mine.”
Matthew 26:40-42
Then he returned to the disciples and found them asleep. He said to Peter, “Couldn’t you watch with me even one hour? Keep watch and pray, so that you will not give in to temptation. For the spirit is willing, but the body is weak!”Then Jesus left them a second time and prayed, “My Father! If this cup cannot be taken away unless I drink it, your will be done.” When he returned to them again, he found them sleeping, for they couldn’t keep their eyes open. So he went to pray a third time, saying the same things again.
Luke 22:43-44
Then an angel from heaven appeared and strengthened him. He prayed more fervently, and he was in such agony of spirit that his sweat fell to the ground like great drops of blood.
Matthew 26:43-46
Then he came to the disciples and said, “Go ahead and sleep. Have your rest. But look—the time has come. The Son of Man is betrayed into the hands of sinners. Up, let’s be going. Look, my betrayer is here!”
When we adopt surrender we embrace His peace.
Jesus pointed out to his disciples that prayerlessness leads to temptation. He prayed through because he knew what he had to endure.
Do you let prayerlessness lead to temptation?
We have no idea what he was going through. On a spiritual level—what was it like to take the sins of the whole world on himself? We’ll never know.
We have lost the significance of the cross for the ones who experienced first hand.
I was going to buy an oversized guillotine around my neck to show you how ridiculous it is. I was shocked and a bit horrified at the selection of guillotine necklace on Amazon—and you should see the suggestions it’s giving me know.
So maybe let me explain it a different way.
Did you know what the earliest image of Jesus on the Cross is?
It’s this one. It’s graffiti from the 1st century…
Can you see it? Here it is cleaned up…
Can you read Latin? I can’t either. Here it is in translation
“Alexandro worshiping his god.”
This graffiti was probably created to make fun of “Alexandros,” a Christian, by implying that he worshiped a “donkey-headed” God. The inscription that accompanies the image indeed reads: “Alexandro worshiping his god.”
The fact that “Alexandro’s God” is being crucified makes it even worse, as during the 1st century crucifixion was a punishment reserved for serious crime offenders.
It was the worst of the worst. Proper Roman citizens wouldn’t even say the word crucified or crucifixion in public. It was not a topic talked about. It was certainly not something celebrated…
…Christians did not celebrate the cross in images until the 5th century — 100 years after Constantine outlawed crucifixion as a punishment in Rome. It was out of use for 100 years before we see it become more common in Christian iconography.
We don’t understand the Cross like those who saw Jesus on it did. We don’t understand the pain, the humiliation, the degradation. Jesus sweated—as it were—drops of blood.
Hematridrosis
Hematridrosis is a condition which the capillaries surrounding sweat glands rupture due to extreme physical or emotional stress. Blood mixes with sweat, causing the person to sweat blood.
Has that happened to you? It hasn’t happened to me. I can never know what Jesus went through in the garden. I’m glad there was an angel there to help him.
We can’t
understand the spiritual side.
comprehend the physical pain.
grasp the societal shame.
But we know Jesus showed us a life of surrender when he showed us his anguish in the Garden.
Surrender is not giving in to the turmoil.
* Surrender is aligning your heart to God’s will.
Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take.
When we adopt surrender we embrace His peace.
Judas led a crowd with men with swords and clubs to the garden and signaled to them who Jesus was with a kiss.
Jesus asked who they were looking for and they told him and he send “I am he” and they fell back. And he said, “Take me, and let these guys go”, so they reached for him and Peter took a sword and cut off the ear of the high priests’ servant.
Jesus healed the servant and told his disciples to stand down. And they scattered.
Can Jesus give us any better example than that, showing us…
When we adopt surrender we embrace His peace.
Jesus went like a lamb to the slaughter while being a lion on a throne. He didn’t answer his accusers or debate what they were saying about him. He wasn’t surrendering to them. He was surrendered to the will of his Father.
There’s more to this night, but we’ll leave our look at it here.
Feeling Hopeless
When I was in Seminary I had a professor who said, “The only service people should leave a little bit depressed by, it’s a Maundy Thursday Service.”
You get it don’t you?
To leave feeling what the disciples felt would be to leave hopeless, ignorant of what was coming.
Does it matter?
We’re all going to have times in our life when our hope has been misplaced or our plans have been disrupted or all of sudden our world stop making any sense.
What do you do when your trust has been lost?
That’s a great question, I’m so glad you asked.
That’s why I’ve developed the How to Walk in Surrender Tool.
How to Walk in Surrender Tool
You’re going to have to lay down and DIE
D - Direct your hope on the One who can’t disappoint Hebrews 12:2
I - Insist on agreeing with His promises Psalm 91:4
E -Exchange your problems for His Peace 1 Peter 5:7
Let’s unpack this…
D - Direct your hope on the One who can’t disappoint
Hebrews 12:2 …fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.
Remember: Surrender is trusting God's plan, even when it challenges your understanding.
When our hope is in any else but Jesus, our hope will lead to disappointment. You know this true, because you’ve had disappointment—in relationships, in health and in what you receive for what you do. The battle for hope is the battle for identity and these three areas are where we are always attacked. If your hope is in any of them, you will be disappointed.
But your hope can be in Jesus. You know the difference that makes. If you don’t you need to. Ask Holy Spirit how to do it. I have some tools that can help.
Is my hope in Christ alone?
I - Insist on agreeing with His promises
Psalm 91:4 He will cover you with his feathers. He will shelter you with his wings. His faithful promises are your armour and protection.
Remember: Surrender is a willingness to lay down your own desires for the sake of others.
We are transformed by the renewing of our mind. That renewal comes from reading the Word that reads us. It is living and active and It is sharper than the sharpest two-edged sword, cutting between soul and spirit, between joint and marrow. It exposes our innermost thoughts and desires. Let him show you what His promises are for you.
1 Peter 5:7 Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you.
Walking in Surrender does not mean not asking God to make it easier for you. It’s understanding that prayer can keep you from temptation.
Remember: Surrender is aligning your heart to God’s will. You do this in prayer.
You exchange your problems for His peace. Work through the CAST my Cares Upon Him Tool…
CAST my Cares Upon Him
C - Centre in on His care for you 1 Peter 5:7
A - Agree with a Psalm that feels like you do Psalm 62:8
S - Set your focus on gratitude Philippians 4:6-7
T - Take ahold of some promises Psalm 91:4
Do cast all my cares on Him?
When we adopt surrender we embrace His peace.
Review…
How to Walk in Surrender Tool
You’re going to have to lay down and DIE
D - Direct your hope on the One who can’t disappoint
Hebrews 12:2 Is my hope in Christ alone?
I - Insist on agreeing with His promises
Psalm 91:4 Do I hold on to His promises?
E -Exchange your problems for His Peace
1 Peter 5:7Do cast all my cares on Him?
Conclusion
We’re going to close in Communion and continue in communion after the service is dismissed.
Put on the music as we prepare to take communion.
Paul tells us
1 Corinthians 11:23-34 For I pass on to you what I received from the Lord himself. On the night when he was betrayed, the Lord Jesus took some bread and gave thanks to God for it. Then he broke it in pieces and said, “This is my body, which is given for you. Do this in remembrance of me.” In the same way, he took the cup of wine after supper, saying, “This cup is the new covenant between God and his people—an agreement confirmed with my blood. Do this in remembrance of me as often as you drink it.” For every time you eat this bread and drink this cup, you are announcing the Lord’s death until he comes again.So anyone who eats this bread or drinks this cup of the Lord unworthily is guilty of sinning against the body and blood of the Lord. That is why you should examine yourself before eating the bread and drinking the cup. For if you eat the bread or drink the cup without honoring the body of Christ, you are eating and drinking God’s judgment upon yourself. That is why many of you are weak and sick and some have even died.But if we would examine ourselves, we would not be judged by God in this way. Yet when we are judged by the Lord, we are being disciplined so that we will not be condemned along with the world.So, my dear brothers and sisters, when you gather for the Lord’s Supper, wait for each other. If you are really hungry, eat at home so you won’t bring judgment upon yourselves when you meet together. I’ll give you instructions about the other matters after I arrive.
Let’s examine ourselves in this moment.
Ask God if there is any reason that those who trust in Him would be ashamed because of you, Is there any reason you can cause them to be humiliated. (See Psalm 69:6)
If we claim we have no sin, we are only fooling ourselves and not living in the truth. But if we confess our sins to him, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all wickedness. 1 John 1:8-9
Thank you for the promise:
“I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh” (Ezekiel 36:26)
Join us as we explore the Triumphal Entry of Jesus the Humble King. This event marks a pivotal moment in the New Testament. Discover the deeper meaning behind this significant occasion. Learn about the lessons of humility and faith that resonate today. Whether you are familiar with the story or learning it for the first time, this video will provide insights into Jesus' journey into Jerusalem and its impact on Christian beliefs.
Jesus left Bethany and probably the home of Lazarus, Mary and Martha and set out for Jerusalem. It was time to announce his arrival in a way he never did before. His time had come. It was the week of his death.
Matthew 21:1-17 NLT As Jesus and the disciples approached Jerusalem, they came to the town of Bethphage (bayth-fag-ay’) on the Mount of Olives. Jesus sent two of them on ahead. 2 “Go into the village over there,” he said. “As soon as you enter it, you will see a donkey tied there, with its colt beside it. Untie them and bring them to me. 3 If anyone asks what you are doing, just say, ‘The Lord needs them,’ and he will immediately let you take them.” 4 This took place to fulfill the prophecy that said, 5 “Tell the people of Jerusalem, ‘Look, your King is coming to you. He is humble, riding on a donkey— riding on a donkey’s colt.’ 6 The two disciples did as Jesus commanded. 7 They brought the donkey and the colt to him and threw their garments over the colt, and he sat on it. 8 Most of the crowd spread their garments on the road ahead of him, and others cut branches from the trees and spread them on the road. 9 Jesus was in the center of the procession, and the people all around him were shouting, “Praise God for the Son of David! Blessings on the one who comes in the name of the Lord! Praise God in highest heaven!” 10 The entire city of Jerusalem was in an uproar as he entered. “Who is this?” they asked. 11 And the crowds replied, “It’s Jesus, the prophet from Nazareth in Galilee.” 12 Jesus entered the Temple and began to drive out all the people buying and selling animals for sacrifice. He knocked over the tables of the money changers and the chairs of those selling doves. 13 He said to them, “The Scriptures declare, ‘My Temple will be called a house of prayer,’ but you have turned it into a den of thieves!” 14 The blind and the lame came to him in the Temple, and he healed them. 15 The leading priests and the teachers of religious law saw these wonderful miracles and heard even the children in the Temple shouting, “Praise God for the Son of David.” But the leaders were indignant. 16 They asked Jesus, “Do you hear what these children are saying?” “Yes,” Jesus replied. “Haven’t you ever read the Scriptures? For they say, ‘You have taught children and infants to give you praise.’” 17 Then he returned to Bethany, where he stayed overnight.
Can I pray?
Humility changes the world
4 Reasons Jesus Entered Jerusalem on a foal of a donkey
1. Fulfillment of Prophecy: This event fulfilled the prophecy found in Zechariah 9:9, which states, “Rejoice greatly, O daughter of Zion! Shout, daughter of Jerusalem! See, your king comes to you, righteous and having salvation, gentle and riding on a donkey, on a colt, the foal of a donkey.” This demonstrated Jesus as the Messiah.
2. Public Declaration: This act was a public declaration of His identity as the Messiah. The crowds recognized this and honoured Him with palm branches, shouting, “Hosanna!” This shows their acceptance and recognition of His role.
3. Contrast to Expectations: Many expected a political leader to overthrow Roman rule. Jesus’ choice of a donkey countered these expectations, highlighting His kingdom was not of this world.
4. Symbol of Peace: A donkey symbolizes peace. Kings who rode horses usually showed power and military strength. By riding a donkey, Jesus presented Himself as a humble king who came to bring peace rather than conflict.
So you might be asking…
How could Jesus arrive in Jerusalem on a symbol of peace and then go to the temple and cause chaos?
That’s a good question…
First let’s realize that’s not all he did at the temple. We’re also told “The blind and the lame came to him in the Temple, and he healed them.” V14 He was also questioned by leaders and He taught them and those around.
Secondly I think we need to recognize:
Humility does not negate authority.
On the day Jesus entered Jerusalem to shouts of Hosanna!; we him exhibit both his humility and his authority. We need to keep both things in mind. He shows it even more a little later in the week, in fact we see something more about the connection between authority and humility on the night he was betrayed.
Next time I speak I hope to talk about this more. For now, I’ll give you sneak peak to show you something mind-blowing.
John 13:1-5 NLT Before the Passover celebration, Jesus knew that his hour had come to leave this world and return to his Father. He had loved his disciples during his ministry on earth, and now he loved them to the very end. It was time for supper, and the devil had already prompted Judas, son of Simon Iscariot, to betray Jesus. Jesus knew that the Father had given him authority over everything and that he had come from God and would return to God. So he got up from the table, took off his robe, wrapped a towel around his waist, and poured water into a basin. Then he began to wash the disciples’ feet, drying them with the towel he had around him.
It was because of his authority he showed them his humility.
In this inside, outside, upside, downside kingdom
Authority Allows For Real Humility
I want you to catch that. Humility and Authority are connected. But it’s not two sides of the some coin. Real humility flows from authority. We show humility because of His authority. (See Ephesians 5:21)
Let me explain. It’s best we start with what the Bible says humility is not and what is says it is.
3 Things Real Humility is not…
1. Putting yourself down James 4:6
2. Acting like you’re doing someone a favour Matthew 23:12
3. Comparing yourself to Others 2 Corinthians 10:12 and saying someone is better than you.
7 Things Real Biblical Humility Is…
1. Recognizing Dependence on God Psalm 25:9
2. Serving Others in Love Mark 10:44-45
3. Being Teachable and Open to Correction Proverbs 11:2
4. Putting Others Ahead of Yourself Philippians 2:3-4
5. Gentleness and Patience Ephesians 4:2
6. The Fear of the Lord Proverbs 22:4
7. Doing What You Do Out of Who and Whose You Are John 13:4
The disciples didn’t get what Real Humility was. It didn’t come to them naturally. It’s certainly didn’t come their mothers naturally. Real humility needs to be caught AND taught. Look at what happened here. In Matthew this happens right before Jesus enters Jerusalem.
Matthew 20:20-28 NLT Then the mother of James and John, the sons of Zebedee, came to Jesus with her sons. She knelt respectfully to ask a favour. “What is your request?” he asked. She replied, “In your Kingdom, please let my two sons sit in places of honour next to you, one on your right and the other on your left.” But Jesus answered by saying to them, “You don’t know what you are asking! Are you able to drink from the bitter cup of suffering I am about to drink?” “Oh yes,” they replied, “we are able!” Jesus told them, “You will indeed drink from my bitter cup. But I have no right to say who will sit on my right or my left. My Father has prepared those places for the ones he has chosen.” When the ten other disciples heard what James and John had asked, they were indignant. But Jesus called them together and said, “You know that the rulers in this world lord it over their people, and officials flaunt their authority over those under them. But among you it will be different. Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first among you must become your slave. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve others and to give his life as a ransom for many.”
The Problem with Humility
We live in the same world that the first disciples did. We live in a world often captivated by power and prestige. The concept of humility can feel out of place. Look at current US politics.
We often associate greatness with grand displays, wealth, and dominance. And think of humility as humiliation.
But Christ’s humiliation allows us to have real humility. Philippians 2:5-8 Did you catch that? Our Authority comes from identity. Our identity whose we are—the one who adopted us, the one one who named us and called us His own, the one who bought us with a price so we belong to him—We are born not of perishable seed, but of imperishable seed. He has set us free and our freedom allows us to serve others in love.
His humiliation allows us to have real humility.
Does this really matter?
It is counterintuitive to the world’s system. It is the way Jesus showed us to live. The Triumphal Entry is more than just a historical event; it is a profound lesson about humility and service.
In our daily lives, we encounter situations where we may feel pressured to assert ourselves or seek recognition. Understanding Jesus' approach encourages us to embrace humility and to recognize that true strength lies in serving others.
Ephesians 4:2 NLT Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love.
What if?
What if we embraced this example of humility in our own lives?
What if we approached challenges with grace rather than aggression?
Think about how our relationships could transform if we prioritized service over status.
Humility changes the world.
Philippians 2:3-8 {Jesus did} nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility {he} value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others. In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death—even death on a cross!
Humility changes the world.
Look how Jesus endured his humiliation with humility…
Hebrews 12:2 fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.
His humility changed the world.
Imagine Humility changing your World
Imagine a community where humility reigns—where nothing is done out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Leaders serve selflessly, and individuals prioritize the well-being of one another. Conflicts would give way to earned understanding, and joy would flourish as everyone works together for the common good. Crap still happens, but real love reigns.
What can I do?
That’s a great question.
You can’t control the humility of others. You can only control a humbling of yourself James 4:10
And don’t worry, I have a tool that can help.
How to Practice Christ-like Humility - BE KIND
B - Be Bold in Love E - Encourage Always
K - Keep Forgiving I - Initiate Simple Acts of Kindness N - Nurture Real Relationships D - Dwell in Compassion
B - Be Bold in Love
1 John 4:19 We love each other because he loved us first.
Perfect love comes from God and flows through us to others. Show love fearlessly, reflecting the love God has shown you
Am I confident enough in God’s love I can share it with others?
E - Encourage Always
1 Thessalonians 5:11 So encourage each other and build each other up, just as you are already doing.
Offer words of affirmation and support to uplift those around you. We are to let nothing come out of our mouths that isn’t for the encouragement of others.
Do I let nothing come out of my mouth that isn’t for the encouragement of others?
K - Keep Forgiving
Colossians 3:13 Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others.
Let go of grudges and practice forgiveness to foster peace.
Is there anything keeping me from forgiving others?
I - Initiate Simple Acts of Kindness
Galatians 6:9 So let’s not get tired of doing what is good. At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don’t give up.
Little simple gestures change lives daily.
I’m working on a 47-Day Negativity Fast Challenge where I’m encouraging people to Be Grateful-Be Mindful-Be Kind and I knew I needed a tool or a rhythm to help people know when they are being kind. You get a sneak peak at it today. Try it out and let me know if it helps.
Do I say YES? Tool
Y - Your State Proverbs 16:2
Check your motivation
We shouldn’t do anything for the show or the dough or the worry or the hurry. We shouldn’t do anything out of shame or to avoid shame. We should let our compassion lead us and not shut off our compassion. 1 John 3:17-18
Why do I want to help?
E - Evaluate the Situation - Luke 12:12
Be situationally aware.
Consider the context and the needs of those around you. Remember a loud blessing too early in the morning can be considered a curse. Proverbs 27:14 Will your kindness be seen as a kindness or as an obligation to repay? The good news is Holy Spirit will give you the words to say or attitude to show. As for His heart in the moment.
What does kindness look like in this moment?
S - Skills and Resources - Colossians 3:23-24
Hear and obey.
Think about what you can offer—time, skills, or words of encouragement. When we do what we do “as unto the Lord” and work with our whole heart, we do not become overwhelmed. We feel busy-ness based not on what is done but what is left undone. When we do what we do to serve Jesus, we never feel the burden of busyness.
The generous will prosper; those who refresh others will themselves be refreshed. Proverbs 11:25
What does God want me to do?
Y - Your State Proverbs 16:2 - Why do I want to help?
E - Evaluate the Situation - Luke 12:12 - What does kindness look like in this moment?
S - Skills and Resources - Colossians 3:23-24 - What does God want me to do?
Do I say YES to daily acts of kindness?
N - Nurture Real Relationships
Proverbs 17:17 A friend is always loyal, and a brother is born to help in time of need.
All the ‘one another commands are naturally occurring when we consider each other friends. Friendship takes time and trust. Invest time in building and maintaining strong relationships with others.
How can I nurture real relationships this week?
D - Dwell in Compassion
Ephesians 4:32 (NIV) Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.
Let compassion lead you and don’t shut off your compassion. Compassion is love in action. Since God is love, God leads us through our compassion. Jesus was lead by compassion. Look at his miracles and the times it says he looked with compassion.
Do I let compassion lead?
Recap..
B - Be Bold in Love 1 John 4:19
Am I confident enough in God’s love I can share it with others?
E - Encourage Always 1 Thessalonians 5:11
Do I let nothing come out of my mouth that isn’t for the encouragement of others?
K - Keep Forgiving Colossians 3:13
Is there anything keeping me from forgiving others?
I - Initiate Simple Acts of Kindness Galatians 6:9
Do I say YES to daily acts of kindness?
N - Nurture Real Relationships Proverbs 17:17
How can I nurture real relationships this week?
D - Dwell in Compassion Ephesians 4:32
Do I let compassion lead?
Will you let your humility change your world?
Will you BE KIND more and more? You’ll be practicing humility.
Can I pray for you?
Practical application
We’re going into a time of fellowship. Don’t rush out the door, even if you think you have to. Spend time talking. Spend time praying. BE KIND to one another.
I don’t see any problem with anyone not showing Christ-like humility. This is just a reminder and an opportunity to not grow weary doing good works to others. You will see a harvest…if you do not give up.
You can leave if you need to, but I’m not saying “You’re dismissed.” Because it’s time to be Jesus to each other. You’re the church. Be the church.
I don’t know how it started. I only was told “It would never work”. When I was a young pastor I got it in my head to connect the churches in the area by inviting them to gather for prayer. I thought if we rotated where we met for prayer, and used the form of prayer that each location was familiar with, it might be a good way for us to connect.
And enough area churches thought prayer together was a good idea. So for two years we met regularly.
We met in churches and knelt by wooden chairs and prayed silently until someone spontaneously lead out in a prayer. We walked around a church sanctuary marked out with prayer markers. We met in a church that had their worship team lead us in prayer. We met and read the liturgy for the World Day of Prayer. We had different language groups praising God at the same time. We prayed in several different languages—and sometimes it was tongues.
Each place was unique. Each church were wonderful hosts. It was amazing.
Celebration Service
We ended it with a joint service at our church. A more liturgical church opened with a reading. The community church led the singing, the E-Free had a special, the nuns choir was rocking out. The lutherans led us in a responsive reading and I preached—I think we called it a homily.
And it was wonderful. We laughed, we worshiped, we celebrated, we reflected. We prayed for each other.
The next day the retiring pastor of a more mainland church came tme. He asked me if I believed what I said about Jesus was true. I told him, “I wouldn’t be doing anything I do if it wasn’t”.
In tears he told me “I tried to help people for 45 years and never told them about Jesus.” I think he got saved in that service. I told him. “It’s good you’re just retiring and not dead. You have the rest of your life to tell people about Jesus.” He was relieved and told me that is what he’s going to do.
When we pray togethers we are made together
What I learned in this process is that When we pray together we are made together.
We celebrate with people we’d not normally celebrate with. We have concern for people we don’t naturally connect with. We value the values those we pray with value. When we pray together we are made together.
Prayer is the common space grace flows feely. Grace from God to us and from us to others. When we pray together we are made together.
Can I pray?
Did you know that Jesus prayed for you?
It’s in what we call his high priestly prayer
John 17:20-24 NLT
“I am praying not only for these disciples but also for all who will ever believe in me through their message. I pray that they will all be one, just as you and I are one—as you are in me, Father, and I am in you. And may they be in us so that the world will believe you sent me. “I have given them the glory you gave me, so they may be one as we are one. I am in them and you are in me. May they experience such perfect unity that the world will know that you sent me and that you love them as much as you love me. Father, I want these whom you have given me to be with me where I am. Then they can see all the glory you gave me because you loved me even before the world began!"
What if our prayer together is the answer to His prayer for us?
I think that’s what the disciples thought, because it’s what the disciples practiced.
After being with his disciples for 40 days following His resurrection, Jesus ascended. With Jesus away the book of Acts tells us “They all met together and were constantly united in prayer” (Acts 1:14)
And then ten days after Jesus ascended the Day of Pentecost had fully come.
Acts 2:1-4 (NLT)
On the day of Pentecost all the believers were meeting together in one place. Suddenly, there was a sound from heaven like the roaring of a mighty windstorm, and it filled the house where they were sitting. Then, what looked like flames or tongues of fire appeared and settled on each of them. And everyone present was filled with the Holy Spirit and began speaking in other languages, as the Holy Spirit gave them this ability.
Later in Chapter 2 …
Acts 2:42-47 NIV
They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. Everyone was filled with awe at the many wonders and signs performed by the apostles. All the believers were together and had everything in common. They sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need. Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favour of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved.
When we learn together we are amazed together. Acts 2:43
When we agree together we share together. Acts 2:44-45
When we eat together we rejoice together. Acts 2:46
When we pray together we are made together. Acts 2:47
Have you noticed…
My Experience with Prayer
My most intimate times prayer—for me—have been alone with Him. Lately He’s called me to seek him, and I’m answering that call. It’s been amazing. My most intimate times of prayer have been alone with him. But my most powerful prayer times have always been togetherwith others because:
When we pray together we are made together.
You make space to learn. You make space to greet. You make space to eat. How do you make space to pray together?
What I used to tell people who had to move away from the city with work…
When I was a young pastor the economy was in an uptick. I noticed it with all the “good”—not just cleaned, but pre-packaged—Christians who came to our church who came from other cities.
You can’t get too excited when the population of your city is growing, if all your growth is transfer growth of pre-packaged Christians—not newly planted.
On the other hand—as companies grew people got transferred to other parts of the companies, so we had people moving away. Again, don’t get too sad when people are being blessed and have to move away.
But I always had the same advice for people, whenever they asked about finding a new church in their new location:
My Advice for Praying with a New Church
Don’t worry about the programs. Don’t even worry too much about the preaching—as long as it as it’s not terrible or heretical—the first thing you need to do is Pray with the people and listen to how they pray.
Can you say “Amen” to their prayers? Does their heart line up with yours (and God)?
A lot happens when you pray with others.
You’ll want to know:
Are they praying to perform or praying in His Presence?
Do they pray with faith or in fear?
Do they pray for each other or at each other?
Do they pray God’s will or their personal agenda?
Do they pray for each other or do they ignore each other’ needs and families?
Do they pray for people not in their church?
Do they pray fervently and effectually for prayers they’ve undoubtedly been praying for a long time?
You should want to know they pray for healing and salvation and help and comfort.
If you can say “Yes” and “Amen” to the prayers of people you just met, it connects you in a way no program or preaching ever could. It’s a short cut to know if that is where God wants you to be planted.
I thought that was great advice. But I didn’t follow my own advice.
When I didn’t follow my own advice about prayer.
When we moved to New Zealand I sort of forgot about this short cut.
We had visited New Zealand before and I was really impressed with a pastor I had connected with and so when we moved to the town he was in, we just started going to his church.
He introduced me to the ministerial and all the pastors in town. He brought me to gatherings with his denomination. He wanted me to teach in the training they had going on for the church.
I started to go to an early morning prayer meeting at another church. Karen would be home with the kids and I’d usually be back before they woke up. The prayer time was fantastic. Someone would have a guitar, someone would read a psalm, someone would sing the psalm, we’d all sing the chorus that would spontaneously come. It was refreshing, it was encouraging. I was there often enough to know while the rhythm was the same, every morning was unique. Intercession, Thanksgiving, petition, praise, praying scripture, singing scripture. I really felt completely at home there.
I was attending the prayer meeting at the church we were attending and at the first time I went the chairs where put away and I was asked “In Canada does good pentecostal praying mean walking around, like it does here in New Zealand?”
I responded. “The Bible says they were sitting in the upper room when Holy Spirt fell the first time so…I think it’s more the condition of the heart, not the position of the body.”
A question came up
Amazingly, not long after. I was asked if I was interested in joining their denomination. I said “Sure”—at the time I thought I could get along with anyone. I thought I was that pleasant to get along with.
But they had a lot of paperwork to join the denomination and I got started on in—paperwork doesn’t scare me— but I got to a question that made me stop and think:
“Why do you want to join our denomination?”
That’s a great question.
I spoke Karen and then I spoke with the pastor. I told him I didn’t have an answer and needed time to find one. So we started checking out other churches.
We went to a few services at other churches and they were fine but… we definitely felt like a project at most of them.
I really wanted to check out the church I was going to early morning prayer at.
The Sunday we went the pastors were away…as was everyone I met in the prayer times. The hard wooden benches were at chaotic angles—they hadn’t been straightened. Have you ever sat too long with no leg room? It was uncomfortable. It put me on edge. The creche—where the kids were supposed to go—looked hazardous, so we didn’t send them.
And admittedly I was in my phase when someone who couldn’t preach-their-way-out-of-a-wet-paper-bag was not only wasting my time but the time of God’s people that Jesus died for…and I knew that for most of the people there—this is all the time they make for Jesus. There’s a special place in heaven—and it’s not up front with the throne and elders and the cherubim and seraphim—for people who can make Jesus boring.
So we went back to the first church and made that our church home.
Interestingly enough…
A few months later, the church I was still going to for early morning prayer had a prayer summit. They opened up their new building—that I knew nothing about—and invited people in their denomination to come and bless it in prayer. And someone came up with idea that it would be fasting and prayer summit. So people came from across New Zealand to fast and pray—and I heard about it after the fact— I only caught the days-after afterglow. God showed up powerfully.
I didn’t think about prayer connecting us each other. I forgot my own advice. I went to an open door and a warm welcome. And I was only adjacent to something amazing, not part of it. And I knew I didn’t listen to my own advice.
The Problem with Practicing Prayer Together
We all think prayer is a great idea.
We can all think of excuses not to pray together. It interrupts our own rhythms.
We’ve all had times of prayer with others that seemed more harmful than helpful.
Most of won’t admit, but come on…have you ever fell asleep in a gathered prayer meeting?
Maybe it’s just me. I’ve come to spiritualize it. I call it sloaking. - Soaking in his presence and sleeping on His lap.
But in spite of all these problems of praying together, it does not negate the truth:
When we pray together we are made together.
Have you ever wondered about why people gathered to pray in the Bible?
I did so I looked it up.
12 Reasons People Gathered to Pray in the Bible
1. Seeking God's Guidance Acts 1:24-26
2. Worship and Praise Acts 2:42-47
3. Intercession for Others James 5:16
4. Expressing Gratitude Philippians 4:6
5. Repentance and Confession of Sins Nehemiah 9:1-3
6. Seeking Deliverance and Protection…or strengthening Acts 12:5
7. Praying for the sick Acts 28:8
8. Guidance in Times of Crisis or Decision-Making 2 Chronicles 20:3-4
9. Unity and Fellowship Acts 4:31
10. Spiritual Empowerment Acts 2:1-4
11. Preparation for Ministry Acts 13:2-3
12. Praise and Celebration of God's Acts Psalm 22:22
Why? Because…
When we pray together we are made together.
Have you ever wondered about happens when we pray together?
When we pray together at least 4 things happen.
4 Things that Happen when we Pray Together
We get
1. Unity Matthew 18:19-20
2. Empathy and Understanding James 5:16
3. Shared Faith Acts 1:14
4. Support and Encouragement Philippians 4:6-7
Because…
When we pray together we are made together.
People coming for prayer to our place
Our kids were small when we lived in New Zealand. And we didn’t have anyone to watch them.
Karen went for an evening prayer time and I went to the early morning prayer but we missed praying together, so we decided to open our home to prayer.
One of us would be putting the kids to bed as the other welcomed people in.
We had wonderful times in prayer with people who prayed our hearts. We had good interactions with God and essentially strangers. We’d always have someone—that after everyone left—Karen or I would ask about.
I’d just assume she knew they from her prayer times. She’s assume I knew them from mine. Often they were unknown by either of us. Then they started bringing friends.
Eventually we got to know some of them. It was amazing how God connected us all.
Maybe God’s leading you to open up a prayer time in your home?
Remember…
When we pray together we are made together.
Does this really matter?
Does unity matter? Oh boy. Unity within God’s family is essential for becoming who God created you to be.
7 Reasons We Need Unity
We are…
1. One Body in Christ Romans 12:4-5
2. Reflecting God's Nature John 17:21
3. Strengthen in Unity Ecclesiastes 4:12
4. Witness to the World John 13:35
5. Have Harmony and Peace Ephesians 4:3
6. Have a Shared Purpose 1 Corinthians 1:10
7. Grow towards Spiritual Maturity Ephesians 4:13
Remember:
When we pray together we are made together.
Imagine
What it would be like to be united in Spirit?
What would it feel like if none of us did anything out of selfish ambition or vain conceit?
What if we considered others better than ourselves?
What if we all had the same attitude of Christ who did not consider equality with God something to be grasp, but made himself nothing taking on the very nature of a servant?
We can experience that—by refreshing each other with prayer.
How do we REFRESH others in prayer?
That’s a great question. I’m so glad you asked.
Remember - Prayer is the common space grace flows feely.
Solution - The Rhythm of Refreshing
The Rhythm of Refreshing is to regularly meet together with others for prayer. Maybe it’s Sunday before the service with others, Maybe it’s when GAP Prayer meets online. Maybe Holy Spirit is prompting you have people over to pray. It needs to be a regular rhythm in our natural rhythms.
However it’s part of your regular rhythm, you may need to be reminded how to REFRESH Others in Prayer.
Because prayer needs to be the common space where grace flows feely.
When we pray together we are made together.
HOW to REFRESH others in Prayer
R - Recognize God's Presence
E - Express Gratitudewhile Avoiding Worry
F - Focus on the needs expressed
R - Remember to look to see what God is doing
E - Encourage others
S - Spend time Praying God’s Heart
H - Harmonize to Pray and never Give up
Let's unpack that..
R - Recognize God's Presence
Matthew 18:19-20 NLT “Again, truly I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything they ask for, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven. For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.”
When we recognize God is with us, we realize the moment is holy. It’s not words that move the hand of God, it’s eyes to see what He’s doing. Words of knowledge or Words of Wisdom or Gifts of healing can we activated when we have faith to notice and create space to realize GOD is with us.
My mistake has been that I pray good theology so that I get God’s attention. Unfortunately, I’ve seen more people healed from bad theological prayers than I have from me trying to impressive God and those listening with how correctly I interpret Scripture.
I’ve come to learn that if I can hear one word from God for this moment, a lot more good gets done than if I’m theologically impressive.
If you want to REFRESH others in Prayer ask yourself:
Am I praying to preform or I am aware He is near?
E - Express Gratitudewhile Avoiding Worry
Philippians 4:6 NLT Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.
When you pray with others, you need to pray in faith and not fear. You know the difference don’t you? You feel the difference, right. We’ve probably all prayed in fear against fear. No? It’s just me then.
Praying in faith encourages you. Praying in fear convinces you of your worries.
My mistake is that I’ve prayed my worries around people of waning faith, and I’ve not obeyed the command to let nothing come out of my mouth that isn’t for the building up and encouragement of others. I’ve prayed against the enemy instead of praying to my loving Father.
Have you been there?
The easiest way I’ve learned to pray out of faith is to pray with thanksgiving. Gratitude is the guardrail for our prayers and our faith.
If you want to REFRESH others in Prayer ask yourself:
Am I praying in faith or in fear?
F - Focus on the needs expressed
James 5:13-16 NLT Is anyone among you in trouble? Let them pray. Is anyone happy? Let them sing songs of praise. Is anyone among you sick? Let them call the elders of the church to pray over them and anoint them with oil in the name of the Lord. And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise them up. If they have sinned, they will be forgiven. Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.
Together we can pray
Petitions—that is our requests, asking God to help
Intercession—that is the needs of others
Scripture—that is agreeing with God about the truth He’s revealed
God’s will - Includes salvation, healing, for our leaders, thanksgivings
When we pray with each other, these are tools to use to pray for the needs expressed.
Example of how I pray to the level of faith
I went to bedside of someone on his deathbed and his family was there and I picked up right away most of them didn’t have much experience with Church. When they asked for prayer, I asked “How do you want me to pray?” and realized I should explain I was asking if they wanted him healed and raised up or if I should pray he could die peacefully. Before I could explain myself the his son said, “Pray with humour, he’d like something funny.”
So I prayed at the level of faith they had. I can’t remember what I prayed but it got a laugh with everyone who wasn’t unconscious.
My mistake is that I have used my prayer to try to raise up someone’s faith. It is Holy Spirit gives the gift of faith, not me.
I want to pray at the level of faith the person asking for prayer has. If their faith is not in line with the will of God expressed in Scripture, I don’t want my prayer to chastise their lack of faith. People need to know they are loved. What I’m trying to say is I want to pray for the person, not at the person.
That being said. When I’m praying with other Christians, their faith will increase my faith as they pray in faith and my faith should increase their faith as I pray in faith.
That’s the way God has designed it. Since Holy Spirit is going to finish the good work He’s started in me, He’ll finish the good work He’s started in you. Prayer is the common space grace flows feely.
If you want to REFRESH others in Prayer ask yourself:
Am I praying for this person or at this person?
R - Remember to look to see what God is doing
Psalm 46:10 NLT “Be still, and know that I am God! I will be honoured by every nation. I will be honoured throughout the world.”
When we pray for someone for healing, it’s good to pray with our eyes open, pray short prayers and pay attention to what God is doing.
In the same way, when we pray for each other as we pray together, it’s good to pay attention to what God is doing. If you can say Amen to their prayer and continue on, do it. We build off each other and together see what God might be saying.
My mistake is that I have tried to pray my agenda or stand on my own soapbox. I’ve prayed at people and not for people. I’ve prayed good theology, not praying God’s heart. Have you ever been the one to suck the faith out of the room with your prayers? I’ve done that. I don’t want to ever do that again.
I’ve learned I need to say yes and amen to what I can say yes and amen to. Build off the prayers until Holy Spirit moves us on to pray for something more.
If you want to REFRESH others in Prayer ask yourself:
Am I paying attention to what God is doing?
E - Encourage Them
Hebrews 10:24-25 NLT Let us think of ways to motivate one another to acts of love and good works. And let us not neglect our meeting together, as some people do, but encourage one another, especially now that the day of his return is drawing near.
People need to know that they are seen, they are heard, and they are loved. When we gather together to prayer, these things should be a natural by-products. We need to think of ways to motivate one another to acts of love and good works, every time we meet.
Whenever we come together, we should come together to encourage each other
My mistake is I have gathered without any expectation to encourage or be encouraged. Sometimes—by God’s grace—I am surprisingly encouraged when I gather in prayer for others.
I’m learning when I regularly pray for people in my own personal prayer time—I’ve made a list of all my family members and their families and all the people I work with and pray for them daily—the times we meet together to pray are more meaningful.
If you want to REFRESH others in Prayer ask yourself:
Am I praying God’s love over them?
S - Spend time Praying God’s Heart
2 Peter 3:9 NLT The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.
I’ve never met a newly planted Christian who didn’t have someone pray them into the kingdom. Sometimes it took time to figure out.
But even when people who were raised in Muslim communities have dreams about meeting Jesus, we need to remember we’ve been praying for the 10-40 window since 1987. It’s the geographical region on the globe between 10 and 40 degrees north where there is a large population with limited access to the Christian message. 82% of the poorest of the world’s poor, 84% of those with the lowest quality of life.
I find it amazing that Christians lament the shift of Christianity from the historical north to the emerging south and forget we prayed it into being.
Praying until answer comes
We’ve prayed—and should continue to pray—for the salvation of people in the most densely populated areas of the world. We can’t forget to pray for the promised Holy Spirit for us and our children and all who are far off.
My mistake is I’ve prayed for some people for such a long period of time, I functionally lose faith in God’s will to see them saved.
I’m learning when I pray with others for the salvation of others I get encouraged to keep on praying for the ones God has given to me to pray for.
I’m learning testimony encourages me to keep praying.
When I remember stories of people who I’ve helped pray into the Kingdom—the last couple I baptized, married and dedicated their children—either the same Sunday or over two Sundays—was the grandson of a couple I prayed with for his salvation for YEARS.
If you want to REFRESH others in Prayer ask yourself:
Am I praying for salvation of people they care about?
H - Harmonize to Pray and never Give up
Matthew 7:7-8 NLT “Keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives. Everyone who seeks, finds. And to everyone who knocks, the door will be opened."
Jesus taught us in the Sermon on the mount that we shouldn’t pray like hypocrites who stand on the corner to pray so people see them, instead we should pray to our Father in private, away from any pretence of show. Also that we shouldn’t pray like the pagans who thought they’d be heard with there many word. He said our good Father knows what we need even before we ask Him. (Matthew 6:5-14)
Then later on—in the same message—he says to ask and keep asking, seek and keep seeking and knock and keep knocking.
Has that ever bothered you?
In context He tells us to not judge or else we’ll be judged and to not worry about the speck in someone else’s eye when we have a log in our own and to not waste the holy on the unholy and then to keep on asking, keep on seeking and keep on knocking.
Here’s what I think is happening…
For our needs we are bring them before God knowing he already knows about them and is ready to meet them. We cast our cares on Him because He cares for us. We don’t need to convince him of our needs. We exchange our problems for His peace.
For who we are becoming—humility and self-evaluation, Wisdom and how to apply it—we need to ask and keep asking, seek and keep seeking and knock and keep knocking.
When we are praying for God’s expressed will—Salvation, Healing, Relationships—that asking and seeking and knocking should be present. Jesus told us parables so that we would always pray and never give up (Luke 18:1)
Now I’ve experienced times when I prayed and know the answer came before I saw the answer come. Elijah’s servant saw a cloud the size of a man’s hand and Elijah knew it was time to run because his answer was on the way. That can happen to us to as well.
My mistake is I have prayed like the pagans, thinking I’ll be heard with my many words AND I have given up the ask and keep asking, seek and keep seeking and knock and keep knocking without knowing the answer was on it’s way.
It’s easier to know the answer is coming when we pray together and agree together that the answer is on the way. Together we have the mind of Christ.
Will you hold on and agree with others until the answer comes or God tells you the answer is on the way?
If you want to REFRESH others in Prayer ask yourself:
Am I willing to ask and keep asking, seek and keep seeking and knock and keep knocking for this answer to come?
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When we pray together we are made together.
The Rhythm of Refreshing —regularly have a rhythm to meet with others for prayer.
HOW to REFRESH others in Prayer
R - Recognize God's Presence
E - Express Gratitudewhile Avoiding Worry
F - Focus on the needs expressed
R - Remember to look to see what God is doing
E - Encourage Them
S - Spend time Praying God’s Heart
H - Harmonize to Pray and never Give up
Remember : Prayer is the common space grace flows feely.
Challenge
Pray together…make space.
Wait on God Expectantly
Join with 3 - 5 people
Ask: How Can I Pray for you?
Don’t leave without everyone knowing they are loved.
Pray and REFRESH
R - Recognize God's Presence Matthew 18:19-20
Am I praying to preform or I am aware He is near?
E - Express Gratitudewhile Avoiding Worry Philippians 4:6
Am I praying in faith or in fear?
F - Focus on the needs expressed James 5:13-16
Am I praying for this person or at this person?
R - Remember to look to see what God is doing Psalm 46:10
Am I paying attention to what God is doing?
E - Encourage Them Hebrews 10:24-25
Am I praying God’s love over them?
S - Spend time Praying God’s Heart 2 Peter 3:9
Am I praying for salvation of people they care about?
H - Harmonize to Pray and never Give up Matthew 7:7-8
Am I willing to ask and keep asking, seek and keep seeking and knock and keep knocking for this answer to come?
